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Relationship Quizzes

Short tests on how you handle closeness, distance and conflict. The one below runs in your browser and nothing you answer is sent anywhere. The rest live in the Chakam app.

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Free · 12 questions · 2 minutes Anxious Attachment Test How much does distance register as danger for you? Twelve questions on silence, reassurance and what happens in your head when a reply is slow. Start the test →

In the app

Twelve more, none of them on this site. The app scores them against your real conversations too, so a result is not only what you say about yourself.

  • What's Your Attachment Style? All four patterns, not just the anxious one.
  • What's Your Texting Persona? The overthinker, the double-texter, the slow burn, the direct one.
  • Red Flag Radar How well do you actually spot them?
  • How Do You Handle Conflict? What you reach for when it gets tense.
  • How Do You Make Up After a Fight? Repair style, which matters more than conflict style.
  • Who Carries the Relationship? Whose effort is holding it together.
  • What's Your Love Language? How you give and want to receive.
  • What's Your Attraction Style? What actually pulls you in.
  • Push-Pull or Real Chemistry? Telling intensity apart from a cycle.
  • How Do You Handle Endings? What you do when something is over.
  • When You're Called Out, What Do You Actually Do? Accountability, honestly measured.
  • Do You Show Narcissistic Traits? The uncomfortable one, aimed at yourself.
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What These Quizzes Are For

Every test here is self-report. It asks how you think you behave and trusts your answer, which makes it useful for putting a name to something you already half-suspect, and useless as a diagnosis. None of these is a clinical instrument and none of them can tell you something is wrong with you.

They work best when you answer about how you usually are rather than how this week has gone. A single rough stretch pulls the same reactions out of almost anyone, which is why a result taken mid-argument tends to say more about the argument than about you.

Why the App Set Is Different

A quiz can only ever check your answers against themselves. The app checks them against your actual messages: who reaches out first, how reply times have moved, how conflict starts and who repairs it. That is the gap between believing you are the calm one and finding out what the last three months of a chat actually show.