Chakam Chakam
On-device chat analyzer

Your chat,
fully wrapped.

Import a chat, get the receipts — who's more into who, red flags, reply speed, who ghosts first. Everything's read on your phone, not a server.

100% on-device by default Free to start No account required
See how it works ↓
Chakam's Ask Anything screen, with suggested questions about a chat Chakam's Reply tab: check my message, suggest a better reply and rizz lines The Chakam app showing a chat's Vibe Check, AI verdict, and Green Flag Report
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Red Flag ReportScore, plus the receipts
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Who's More Into WhoEffort, ranked
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Ghost Risk MeterSee it coming
13relationship assessments
37relationship patterns, explained
8+chat apps supported
9languages
Why Chakam exists

Stop decoding mixed signals on your own.

Chakam is an on-device AI chat analyzer built to turn a confusing conversation into clear answers — no guessing, no group chat poll, just your actual texts read by AI chat analysis that never leaves your phone.

It tracks shifts in attitude and tone over time, effort and reciprocity, red flags, and ghosting risk — the patterns most people only notice weeks too late. It's a real chat analyzer, not a horoscope: every read is grounded in your own message history, not a generic script.

Your chat with Rowland, decoded
Compatibility71%
Interest trendRising ↑
Vibe, last 2 weeksWarming up
Red flags1 flagged
Ghost riskLow
What Chakam analyzes

Everything hiding in your chat, decoded

A full AI chat analysis of your relationship, dating, or texting dynamic — every read grounded in your actual conversation, not a generic script.

The Verdict

Detailed AI Verdict

A written verdict on the relationship dynamic, grounded in your actual chat stats — not a horoscope. Chakam explains the "why" behind the numbers, the way a brutally honest friend would read your texts.

A Chakam report with a Vibe Check and a written AI verdict
Red Flag Report · 62/100

Red Flag Score

A 0–100 red flag score built from real patterns — one-sided effort, ghosting, escalating arguments, money talk — not a vibe. Every flag comes with the receipts: exactly why it fired, and who triggered it.

Green Flag Report · 81/100

Green Flag Score

The inverse read: balanced energy, quick replies, no real fights, someone who steps up first after a rough patch. Chakam's relationship analysis credits what's actually working, not just what's wrong.

Ask Anything

Ask Anything

Got a question the cards don't answer? Ask it directly — "does this person actually like me?", "am I being too much?" — and get a real answer grounded in your chat history, screenshot attachments included.

Chakam's Ask Anything screen
Ghost Risk Meter · Low

Ghost Risk Meter

A real ghosting-risk score for the other person specifically — built from their unanswered-message rate, a fading share of the conversation, and their longest silence. See it coming, not just the aftermath.

Interest Over Time · Rising ↑

Interest Over Time

Track how much of the conversation each person has been carrying, week by week — not one interest score, but the whole trend line. See exactly when interest started rising, or when it began to fade.

Positivity vs Negativity

Positivity vs Negativity

Every message scored for warmth against friction, then tracked over time as a "Vibe Over Time" trend. Chakam's sentiment analysis shows whether things are genuinely warming up or quietly turning cold.

Situationship

Vibe Check

An instant read on what this actually is — romantic, situationship, friendship, business — before you sink an hour into overanalyzing one text. Classified straight from the pattern of the conversation itself.

8+ sources supported

Multi-Platform Chat Analysis

Import a WhatsApp export directly, or bring screenshots from Instagram, Snapchat, Messenger, iMessage, Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. One AI chat analyzer, every conversation you're trying to make sense of.

New · Reply help

Know what to say next

Check how a message will land before you send it, get replies to theirs, and openers that fit who they actually are.

Why Chakam

Why people keep coming back to Chakam

Most chat-analysis apps hand you one report and disappear. Chakam is built differently — every relationship you track keeps updating, not just the day you first imported it.

It works across the platforms you actually use, and the insight isn't locked to one conversation: your own texting patterns, effort, and communication style get reflected back to you over time, with relationship tips you can carry into every connection — not just the one chat you happened to analyze.

  • Works across 8+ messaging platforms
  • Reports that update, not a one-time snapshot
  • New insight added automatically over time
  • Reflects your own texting personality back to you
  • Relationship tips for life, not just this chat
  • Track vibe, interest & red flags as they evolve
  • 100% on-device by default
  • Free to start, no account required
Built for how people connect now

The emotional intelligence modern dating actually requires

Reading the room, understanding yourself, knowing when to reach out — skills every relationship in a text-first world depends on.

Know the moment tone shifts

Most people only notice a tone shift once it's already a pattern. Chakam's Vibe Over Time tracks warmth against friction across every message, so a real shift shows up as a line moving — not a feeling you talk yourself out of.

Better timing, not scripted lines

Chakam won't write your next text for you. But knowing whether interest is rising, cooling off, or someone's about to go quiet changes when and how you reach out — real timing instinct, built on your actual chat history instead of a guess.

See your own patterns, not just theirs

Beyond any single chat, Chakam builds a picture of your own texting personality across every relationship you track — the same patterns worth understanding about yourself as anyone else's.

Insight that keeps arriving

New things Chakam notices about you keep showing up on your home screen over time — the same "here's what we found so far" moments that make checking back in worth it, not a report you read once and forget.

More than a report

Help with what to say, and why it keeps happening

The report tells you what's in the chat. These tell you what to do about it, and what it says about you.

Reply

Before you hit send

Type the message you're about to send and see how it's likely to land, plus three rewrites that say the same thing better. Paste or screenshot theirs and get replies in the tone you choose.

Chakam's Reply tab with check my message, suggest a better reply and rizz lines
Patterns Library

37 patterns, no jargon

From anxious-avoidant cycles to trauma bonding, DARVO and reactive abuse — explained in plain language, with the ones showing up in your own chats marked.

Chakam's Patterns Library, listing relationship patterns by category
13 assessments

Check the guess against the evidence

Attachment style, conflict style, love language, accountability and more. A quiz can only check your answers against themselves, so the app checks them against your actual messages too. Try the anxious attachment test free →

Diary

The part a chat can't show

A private diary for how a relationship is actually making you feel, tied to the chat it belongs to and read by nothing but you.

How it works

Three steps, one minute

No sign-up, no waiting on a server — the whole thing happens on your phone.

1

Import a chat

Export straight from WhatsApp, or drop in a few screenshots from Instagram, Snapchat, Messenger, iMessage, Tinder, Bumble, Hinge — or almost any other chat app.

2

Chakam reads it

Message counts, reply speed, double-texts, ghosting, red flags — calculated right there on your device.

3

Get your wrapped

A full card deck plus a written verdict on the dynamic — save it, revisit it, or share the parts you want to.

Supported chats

Bring the chat you've already got

Export-based sources are read directly; the rest work from screenshots.

Privacy first

Your chats were never ours to keep.

Chakam reads your chat to build your report, not to hold onto it. Every metric on the free tier never leaves your phone — and what does get sent for the AI verdict is stripped of names and identifying details before it goes anywhere.

✓

Most of your analysis never leaves your phone

Message counts, reply speed, red flags, ghost risk — every metric on the result screen is computed locally, in the app. There's nothing to intercept, because there's nothing in transit.

✓

What is sent gets your name stripped out first

The AI verdict works from a small, de-identified sample — real names swapped for placeholders, phone numbers and links redacted, before anything reaches a server. Names are only swapped back on your device, after the answer comes home.

✓

Nothing is kept once your report is built

Our backend processes each request in memory and forgets it immediately — no database of your chats, no screenshots kept around, nothing sitting on a server waiting to be leaked.

FAQ

Good questions

Does my raw chat ever leave my phone?

No — the metrics and cards you see are calculated on-device. The only things that can leave are a small, aliased sample used to write the AI verdict, and screenshot images for sources that require OCR (Instagram, Snapchat, Messenger, iMessage) — full details in the Privacy Policy.

Do I need to create an account?

No. Open the app, import a chat, and you’re straight into your results.

What does the subscription unlock?

The free tier gives you a first set of cards on every analysis. Premium unlocks the rest of the deck — red flag detail, ghosting risk, reply-speed breakdowns, and the full AI verdict.

Can I delete my data?

Yes, anytime — "Clear all data" in Settings wipes everything stored on your device. We don’t have a server-side copy to delete, because we never keep one.

Is Chakam free to download?

Yes — Chakam is completely free to download on iOS and Android, with no signup required to start. Every chat analysis you run comes with a free AI verdict card and a first set of report cards at no cost, so you can try the chat analyzer for yourself before paying anything. For the full deck — detailed Red Flag and Green Flag Reports, the Ghost Risk Meter, Interest Over Time, and more — you can upgrade to one of our affordable premium plans whenever you’re ready for deeper relationship insights.

Will my data be used to train AI models?

No — never. Your chats, screenshots, and personal data are not used to train AI models, improve machine learning systems, or build any dataset, ours or a third party’s. We also don’t store your data on our servers at all: each request is processed in real time and discarded immediately afterward. Your conversations exist in exactly one place — your own device — which is also why privacy and data protection are built into Chakam from the ground up, not bolted on as an afterthought.

How is Chakam better than a dating coach?

Chakam is available 24/7 — no appointments, no hourly rate, no waiting days for a session. It’s a judgment-free dating companion you can turn to any time you need clarity: decoding mixed signals late at night, getting a second opinion before you hit send, or making sense of a pattern you can’t quite name on your own. Chakam isn’t a substitute for professional relationship therapy or serious mental health support, but for everyday dating advice, relationship tips, and a data-driven gut-check before a big decision, it’s there the moment you actually need it — grounded in your real conversation, not generic advice.

What languages are supported?

Chakam supports multiple languages, so the tips, insights, and dating advice you get stay accurate no matter what language you text in. It’s built to understand real, everyday texting — not just formal phrasing — including modern slang, abbreviations, and emoji, so the read on tone, red flags, and vibe holds up whether you’re chatting in English, Spanish, Portuguese, French, or beyond.

How accurate are the insights?

Chakam’s accuracy comes from what it actually measures: objective communication signals — response timing, message frequency, emotional tone, and engagement consistency — rather than assumptions or guesswork. Because every insight is grounded in your real chat history instead of generic relationship advice, the resulting red flags, compatibility scores, and interest trends reflect genuine patterns in your dynamic. That said, Chakam is a data-driven analysis tool, not a replacement for your own judgment — it works best as a second opinion alongside your own read of the situation and the real-world context only you have.

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More than a wrapped.

Real dating advice grounded in your own texts, self-help tips built from your actual patterns, and the closure of finally having a straight answer — not a one-time recap, but insight that keeps showing up when you need it. Free to start, on iOS and Android.